4/17/2021 LGBTQ+ is NOT my community, does NOT give ANY priority my interests, to the interests of Lesbians, of women and girlsRead Now I am a Lesbian. LGBTQ+ is NOT my community, does NOT give ANY priority my interests, to the interests of Lesbians, of women and girls. Let the TQ+ fend for themselves. They are NOT us.
Who are YOU Feeling alienated by femininity is a near-universal female experience, especially for gay and bisexual women— not something that means you’re not a woman at all.
4/12/2021 I also mourn the loss of our young butch lesbians to surgeries and life-long dependence on dangerous hormonal drugsRead Now As a long-time lesbian I feel so betrayed by "woke" leftie friends who throw women-born-women's rights under the bus in favor of M to F trans "rights" which take ours away.
I also mourn the loss of our young butch lesbians to surgeries and life-long dependence on dangerous hormonal drugs. 4/11/2021 I'm not welcome in my own community because I refuse to conform to the Orwellian double thinkRead Now I'm not welcome in my own community because I refuse to conform to the Orwellian double think. Putting on a dress and makeup doesn't make you a woman same as me cutting my hair short and wearing a suit doesn't make me a man.
I used to be proud of calling myself a lesbian so that I was unavailable to men.
Now I'm scared of being a social pariah for rejecting a self ID'd trans woman. 4/9/2021 since when did ciswomen who have concerns about their safety become the enemy, when all the people physically assaulting transwomen are cismen?Read Now since when did ciswomen who have concerns about their safety become the enemy, when all the people physically assaulting transwomen are cismen?
I feel so alienated from both broader society AND the gay community as a lesbian. I don’t feel welcomed anywhere but with other lesbians : (
There is no comfort or safety for bisexual women. We are the community’s favorite punching bag. What’s funny is that bisexual men simply do not receive this same level of vitriol. The combination of being female and being bisexual means not just being an outcast in your own community, but actively being mocked, hated, laughed at, and condescended to; The misogyny from within the community is rampant and incessant.
The community has a lesbophobia issue, a serious one. I and many other lesbians have been told that we're transphobic if we don't date trans women and we're being targeted for literally being lesbians. It's not talked about at all within the community and it's probably because it's a giant hive mind at this point.
I wish so much that I had more of a lesbian community. There used to be a whole lesbian magazine in my hometown and the only gay bar has closed in the pandemic. It's so sad and I also am scared of gays because I often feel like they'll judge my opinions and ostracize me.
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